Friday 29 October 2010

Kids, monsters and other energy vampires

Don't panic... but there is something I need to share. A very frightful observation, but one I need to share nonetheless. Believe it or not, vampires DO exist!!  They are not the blood sucking, red eyed fiends we all believed existed but rather they are needy, annoying or stress-inducing creatures.  They are energy vampires.  You know the ones: they suck the energy out of you without you even noticing it's happening! Sometimes they may even disguise themselves as small children or teenagers. But beware, they are tricky. They look at you with puppy dog eyes, they smile (oh they are smooth) and before you know it, you are knee deep in it and wondering why every ounce of energy has disappeared from your body. You feel drained, exhausted and even moody... you have been attacked by "one of those" monsters.  
This brings me to the need for protection.  I know it sounds strange, but there is a need for people to become aware of the vampires around them.  It could be your boss, your work colleague, your friends, your kids.  Heck, it could even be your spouse!  Doesn't mean that you cannot be around these people, however it is crucial to protect yourself as much as possible before socialising with these beings.  Firstly, before throwing yourself into the fire, try surrounding yourself with an invisible bubble filled with light and positive thoughts.  This is always a good way to begin. Secondly, notice your own energy when the so called vampires are close to you.  Do you feel like you want to step back or not listen to them?  That's because their energy levels are vibrating on lower vibrations, therfore it feels uncomfortable or awkward.  Instead of uplifting your vibes, they suck the life force from you right under your nose.  They always seem to need your help, your time, your opinion, your ideas, your energy, your car, your money... see where I am going with this? Just smile and nod. And listen to your body: is it tense, are the muscles in your neck and shoulders tightening up or are you getting a headache? Your body is the best guide to how you are reacting to outside influences.
However, there is one exception to this rule: young children and babies do not fall under the vampire category.  They are here to amuse and torture adults simultaneously.  They're just one of those creatures you love unconditionally even though they wake you at 3 am because of a bad dream or belly ache.  Surround these small beings with love, patience and light and may the force be with you when the vampires arrive :-)

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